“A single thorn of experience is worth a whole wilderness of warning.”
Remember one of the ancient sayings from your first-grade teacher? It went something like this: “We learn to do by doing.” So . . . from “Chicken Soup” comes this story by John Holt:
Not many years ago I began playing the cello. Most people would say that what I am doing is ‘learning to play’ the cello. But these words carry into our minds the strange idea that there exist two very different processes: 1) learning to play the cello; and 2) playing the cello. They imply that I will do the first until I have completed it, at which point I will stop the first process and begin the second. In short, I will go on ‘learning to play’ until I have ‘learned to play’ and then I will begin to play. Of course, this is nonsense. There are not two processes, but one. We learn to do something by doing it. There is no other way.
How do we learn to swim? Do we get the basics in a classroom, taught to us on a chalkboard, and then hit the pool like Mark Spitz or Esther Williams? How about riding a bike? Do we study the laws of physics, the effects of gravitational pull, or other Einstein-like theories, and then launch ourselves into the top spot in the “Tour de France?” No – we just fall down and scrape our knees a lot.
Want to add new direction to your life? Begin walking in that direction. Put one foot in front of the other. In other words, “Just do it!” It all begins with your imagination harnessing the power of your mind and the energy of your body. Once you choose a new role for your life, don’t learn the part – act the part. One other thing – don’t let that “single thorn of experience” deter you!